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This Flat, A Home
this flat, a home
for six years
four bedrooms filled
with us five, and
countless guests, pilgrims
gratefully received
we recall the painful
waiting, it came slowly
to us from generous hands
then faith found us dancing
wildly in our safe haven
in a crazy city, strange
to us, a cathedral for
our hopes and prayers
with almost an acre of
polished marble for
sophia’s first steps, and
splitting her tender chin
for dania’s dance and her
dramatics, and for skateboards
and balls under alexis’ feet, better
acoustics for her silly songs of
worship and ours, blessed snacks
we called meals, rooms so sparse
soon filled up with finds from
markets, flowers planted, trees
we made it our own, parties and
petitions spilling onto the street
abundant smiles, crowds of kids
coming, going, the guard outside
won us over, the tears of a maid
who knocked first, we believed
we were called, and this flat
a gift, some friends will endure
the breach, so much will
end, leaving our hearts
heavy on the day we
pull the door closed
for the last time
**Dedicated to A-113 Ground Floor, New Friends Colony, New Delhi, 110 025, INDIA,
our home address from October 2005 to July 2011.
Ten Things We'll Miss About India
10) The Chaos - Though at times it was hard to handle, we will miss the craziness that defines India, the chaos that has charmed us so thoroughly during these past six years.
9) The Heat - Delhi does have a brief winter, but it is known more for its heat. Though it was downright oppressive when it approached 50 degrees Celsius, we will miss the excessive sunshine that dominates Delhi weather for much of the year. In general, our family prefers to sweat than to shiver.
8) The Traffic - We will miss the Indian roadways, the perennial stage of the weird, wild and wonderful. It is pure magic and madness. Unfortunately, the skills we have learned here will be totally lost in Canada and, if we value our safety on its orderly (and boring) roads, we will have to thoroughly unlearn them.
7) The Deliveries - we will miss the convenience of being able to order, by phone, almost anything from groceries to medicine to train tickets to light bulbs to McDonald's french fries, and have it delivered to our door at no extra cost.
6) The Pampering - we will miss the shaves and waxing and massages and all the other very affordable luxuries that we have gladly become accustomed to here.
5) The Notoriety - there's something very special about the way Indians treat foreigners. Even after years in India, we often feel like celebrities with the attention we get. In addition to that general feeling, we will also miss the unique opportunities that came to us. We have modeled for national clothing brands, acted in TV commercials and in Bollywood films, and even had our flat featured as a filming location for a recent movie. Not to mention all the interesting and important people that we've been able to meet.
4) The Big Chill - we all love Indian food, especially home-cooked, but we will also miss the best of the myriad of Delhi establishments that cater to the taste buds of the emerging globalized culture. The Big Chill is the unanimous pick for our family's favorite restaurant in Delhi.
3) The Chai - We will miss the beverage itself but more the value that people in India put on slowing down and sharing a hot drink together. It is a very relational and hospitable culture, which is seen clearly in the ritual of chai.
2) The Friendships - we will never forget the people who welcomed us to India with open arms and quickly became our friends. More than anything else, it was our friendships that made it possible for us to love living here.
1) The People - more than a billion of them. Beyond our close friends, we will miss the acquaintances and strangers who offered their smiles so freely and who reminded us over and over again that God has deposited his precious image in abundance here in India.
Bittersweet
Bittersweet departure
Our once upon a time
And once again
Pulling on the heart
Embracing the joy and pain
Of moving away
And letting go
Of the experience
Of somewhere
We called home.
Myriad of emotions
Our hearts overflow
So much in store
So many uncertainties
Leaving nothing behind
Except precious friends
And burgeoning dreams
And every expectation
Of something
We called life.
Beautiful mysteries
Our eyes have seen
Amidst risks taken
Sacrifices celebrated
Obeying the gentle voice
And forging ahead
Into the truth of trust
And the wisdom
Of someone
We called Lord.